Friday, 20 April 2012

  • Finally

    im 24 and im not usually the one to approach a guy so i could be sitting waiting for mr. right to come along and speak to me for a very long time.i have very litrtle confidence sometimes.im the type of girl.who normally is the shy quiet type.but sometimes outgoing and talkative depends on the person.i find it very hard to approach guys.cause i dont think theyd be interested in a girl like me.or think im attractive.lets face it no confidence low selfesteem.guy im a walking disaster area.i wish there was some kind of spell to put on me that would be making me this really beautiful girl.so id be popular and have friends and get the hott popular in school.i love teen witch.too bad that cant be for real.ive seen it far too many times lol.i for once wanna be the girl again that people approach i do have a sour look on my face im not that happy always i dont get out much.to be around guys like your really gonna meet a guy in a store or movie theather yeah if your a teen maybe.im passed my teen years.im passed knowing where to go.hopefully i find somewhere to go.i think  i need to ask my family to give me a makeover and go shopping maybe thatll make me feel like a new person.and if men or guys cant see how good a person i am or how pretty i am than the hell with it.

Comments (3)

  • Erika_Steele

    When you get older, it does become harder to meet people.  If you are lucky enough to live in a city with "hobby" clubs, you should look for one to join.  If you don't have any hobbies, it would be a great way to find one and meet more people.  If you live a small city like I do, then you are kind of stuck.  Where I live, if you are not connected with one of the colleges or universities, it is hard to socialize once you are out of college.

  • thelittlebrat

    Don't lose hope! Something that I find fascinating is how many different types of people there are, and each person is just so different from the next person. And the thing is, you never know who you might meet by chance. It could end up being that guy that just clicks with you. Just stay hopeful :) And be yourself of course! :D 

  • ashleynicole@lovelyish

    I feel very similarly to this. I'm still in school though, so going to campus every day and being around similar people all the time helps, but I'm in no way capable of making a move. I've had a huge crush on a guy at my gym for two years and I am 98% sure he's interested in me because I've caught him looking at me. But I just can't do it. But I have to say, I'm sure that there have been guys who HAVE seen something in you that they like, whatever that may be for that specific person. I think you just need to try and put yourself out there a bit more. It is hard, but going out to social places more (with current friends if they agree) and just opening up your experiences might help. Maybe when you are walking around some place you are comfortable in you can try saying hello to strangers - probably older, kind-looking women, since they are easiest to smile and say hello to. Could help build up your ability to say hello to guys you are interested in. I mean, what's the worst that could happen, they reject you? The same's happening in your head every time you don't say something to the guy. 

    And btw, /hypocrite. I wonder when I'll take my own advice. 

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